Hey Mr. Matthews,

I like your e mails a lot but there is one unusual problem with me. I like a girl in my chemistry class but the problem with her is that she only comes and goes in the class and always has her best friend (she’s a girl) with her. They Both are always GLUED together so it makes very difficult for me to approach her and talk to her.

I tried a lot of times to approach her, after some time they Both start talking and I just sit staring at them. Read the rest of this article »

You started online dating to meet a woman. Now it is time to meet your online match for the first time. Meeting her in a comfortable environment is your best strategy for transitioning to a relationship in the real world.

Meet As Friends

When it comes time to meet your online match in person, meet as friends. Don’t go to your first meeting with the idea in your mind that she is The One or might be The One. That puts way too much pressure on your first meeting. Read the rest of this article »

Every now and then I’ll get an email from a guy telling me how a sexy woman made fun of him, and that now he’s afraid to talk to women because they might make fun of him. Or, I’ll hear from a guy who’s unhappy in his relationship because his wife or girlfriend makes fun of him.

What should you do if a sexy woman makes fun of you? The answer might surprise you, because a woman making fun of you can actually be a good thing, not a crushing blow to your confidence… IF you understand it for what it is. Read the rest of this article »

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